How To Choose The Right Partner?

How To Choose The Right Partner?

When you step into the world of dating, many may come along and claim that they are perfect for you. Then how do you distinguish the genuinely good ones from the bad ones? Listed below are some traits that you must look out for in a perfect partner.

1. Loyalty
If they can’t stay loyal, they will not be able to love you enough. You will never be happy with a person like that. No matter what happens, never date a philanderer.

2. Maturity
Maturity refers to knowing how to behave in a particular place and a particular time. Maturity does not depend upon the age of a person. It is attained through sufficient experience.

3. Independence
This refers to someone who has the potential to keep you happy. Don’t date someone who will only depend on you for every single thing.

4. Commitment
Commitment is very important in a relationship. Look out for someone who wishes to have a long term relationship with you. Run away from a person who keeps changing his mind

5. Security.
Go for someone who can make you feel secured both physically, emotionally and financially.

6. Respect.
Go for someone who will not only respect you but also respect those who are important to you.

7. Good sense of humor.
Go for someone who will make life lively for you. Laughter heals wounds & act as catalyst in r/s.

8. Similarities.
Go for someone who shares similar hobbies, taste, preferences like you to avoid clash of interest.

9. Smartness.
Go for someone who is more intelligent and wiser than you.

10. Romantic & affectionate.
Go for someone who can make you feel special.

11. Easy to understand.
Go for someone who you can easily blend with.

12. Sensitivity.
Go for someone who is sensitive to your feelings and needs.

IF YOU HAVE GOTTEN ONE, PLEASE DON’T LET HIM GO.
By Paul M. Wakawa

Joke Joke Joke

Akpos’ father passing by Akpos’ bedroom was
astonished to see that his bed was nicely made and
everything was picked up. Then he saw an envelope, propped up prominently
on the pillow that was addressed to ‘Dad.’ With the worst premonition he opened the envelope
with trembling hands and read the letter. Dear Dad, It is with great regret and sorrow that I’m writing
you. I had to elope with my new girlfriend because I
wanted to avoid a scene with Mom and you. I have been finding real passion with chioma and
she is so nice. But I knew you would not approve of her because
of all her piercing, tattoos, tight motorcycle clothes
and the fact that she is much older than I am. But it’s not only the passion…Dad, she’s pregnant.
Chioma said that we will be very happy. She owns a trailer in the woods and has a stack of
firewood for the whole winter. We share a dream of
having many more children. Chioma has opened my eyes to the fact that
marijuana doesn’t really hurt anyone. We’ll be
growing it for ourselves and trading it with the
other people that live nearby for cocaine and
ecstasy. In the meantime we will pray that science will find a
cure for AIDS, so Chioma can get better. She
deserves it. Don’t worry Dad, I’m 15 and I know
how to take care of myself. Someday I’m sure that we will be back to visit so
that you can get to know your grandchildren. Your Son,
Akpos P.S. – Dad, none of the above is true. I’m over at
Emeka’s house. I just wanted to remind you that there are worse
things in life than the report card that’s in my center
desk drawer. I love you. Call me when it’s safe to come home.

Wacth Youtube Videos On VLC Player

You can not only Watch single Video in VLC  but also Watch Youtube Playlists in VLC to watch them in Sequence,Some More Advantages of Watching Youtube Videos In VLC Media player are:

Watch Youtube Videos without Ads, Means no Disturbance While Watching your Favourite Video.
Use Loop Button To Watch a Video Again and again Many times.
Increase or Decrease the Speed of the Video
Take Snapshots of any particular Screen of a Song or Movie.
How to Watch Youtube Videos in VLC Media Player

Now let us Get Started With Steps to Watch Youtube Videos In VLC, Follow the Below Simple Steps.

Step 1: Open VLC media player, Click on File > Open Network Or Simply Use CTRL+N Keys to Open up Network URL Dialog box.

Step 2: Open Youtube, Navigate to Whatever Video you want to Play in VLC, Copy the Url of that video and Paste it in the Dialogue Box. and Click on Play.

Step 3: Enjoy Your Video.

Simple Enough hah, Now Let us see How to Watch Youtube Playlist In VLC Media Player.

Step 1: To Watch Youtube Playlists in VLC we will be Using an addon, So Click here to Goto the Downloading Page of the VLC addon Called VLC Playlist Parser. Make sure you have Latest Version of VLC Running on your system.

Step 2: Download the addon, Copy it and Paste it in Videos Installation folder which in most cases would be C:\Program Files\VideoLAN\VLC\lua\playlist. 
Step 3: Everything is done, Now Open VLC, Press CTRL+N Paste Video Playlist URL Which need to be Public. Click on Play and Enjoy all the Videos.

I Just Hope this tutorial on How to Watch Youtube Videos in VLC Media Player Helps all you Youtube Lovers.

40 Quotes To Inspire The Greatness In You

Personal development is a fascinating and fun journey… most of the time.

Sometimes you become aware of aspects of yourself that you don’t like.
These are usually the things that need the most attention. If you find yourself
denying or dismissing some part of you that you KNOW needs changing but
you’re resisting it, it may help to read some personal development quotes to
keep you motivated.
After all, the work you put into yourself is for your benefit!

Personal Development Quotes

1. “When you want something,all the universe conspires in helping you to
achieve it.”- Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

2. “As soon as you stop making everyone else responsible for your happiness,
the happier you’ll be.” – Nina Guilbeau

3. “The word ‘listen’ has the same letters as the word ‘silent’” – Alfred Brendel

4. “It is more Important to be of pure intention than of perfect action.”
– Ilyas Kassam

5. “Even in the most peaceful surroundings, the angry heart finds quarrel.
Even in the most quarrelsome surroundings, the grateful heart finds peace.
– Doe Zantamata

6. “Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a
perspective, not the truth.” – Marcus Aurelius

7. “Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never,
for whatever reason, turn his back on life.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

8. “If there is no wind, row.” – Latin proverb

9. “You are the way you are because that’s the way you want to be. If you
really wanted to be different, you would be in the process of changing right now.”
– Fred Smith

10. “The mind maketh good or ill, wretch or happy, rich or poor.” – Edmund Spenser

11. “What a folly the thought of throwing away life at once, and yet have no
regard to throwing it away by parcels and piecemeal.” – John Hove

12. “People do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.”
– James Allen

13. “What you subconsciously want, you will get. And what you subconsciously
do not want, you will avoid.” – Bo Sanchez

14. “Things do not change; we change.” – Henry David Thoreau

15. “Meditation is the soul’s perspective glass. – Owen Feltham

16. “What comes, is called.” – Ki Longfellow

17. “All things are possible to him who believes.” [Mark 9:23]

18. “The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.” – E.E. Cummings

19. “The things that we love tell us what we are.” – St. Thomas Aquinas

20. “Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.” – Don Marquis

21. “When you plant a seed of love, it is you that blossoms.”
– Ma Jaya Sati Bhagavati

22. “Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done
without hope and confidence. – Helen Keller

23. “To experience peace does not mean that your life is always blissful.
It means that you are capable of tapping into a blissful state of mind amidst
the normal chaos of a hectic life.” – Jill Bolte Taylor

24. “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing
itself, but your own estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any
moment.” – Marcus Aurelius

25. “To love what you do and feel that it matters – how could anything be more fun?”
– Katherine Graham

26. “Learn how to fail intelligently, for failing is one of the greatest arts in the
world.” – Charles Kettering

27. “Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things,
or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier. The
way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do
what you need to do, in order to have what you want.” – Margaret Young

28. “I’ve never been poor, only broke. Being poor is a frame of mind. Being broke
is a temporary condition.” – Mike Todd

29. “Have you ever noticed that when there is a problem, you are always there?
The problem is yours – both in perception and in responsibility. Clear the beliefs in
you that see it as a problem, and the problem disappears!” – Dr. Hew Len

30. “Don’t look where you fell. Look where you slipped.” – Unknown

31. “The secret to my success is that I bit off more than I could chew and I chewed
as fast as I could.” – Paul Hogan

32. “When we give ourselves permission to fail, we at the same time give ourselves
permission to excel.” – Eloise Ristad

33. “If it’s still in your mind, it’s worth taking the risk.” – Paulo Coelho

34. “The bolder the action, the greater the genius, magic and power that is likely to
flow from it.” – Robert Ringer

35. “An idea not coupled with action will never get any bigger than the brain cell it
occupies.” – Arnold Glasgow

36. “You either move toward something you love or away from something you fear.
The first expands, the second constricts.” – Tom Crum

37. “Courage is the power to let go of the familiar.” – Raymond Lindquist

38. “Discontent is the first necessity of progress.” – Thomas Edison

39. “You will become as small as your controlling desire, as great as your dominant
aspiration.” – James Allen

40. “You can’t cross a sea by merely staring into the water.” – Rabindranath Tagore

Use these personal development quotes and the personal development tools
available to you within the Silva Method to help you on your path of personal
growth. Get inspired by the wise words of others. And if something doesn’t resonate
with you, put yourself in the author’s shoes and try to see things from his or her
perspective. You just never know what a quote can spark within you!

Read

TOUCHING STORY.

A King had a male servant who, in all
circumstances always said to him;My king, do not be
discouraged because everything God does is
perfect,no
mistakes. One day, they went hunting and a wild
animal attacked the king,the servant managed to kill the
animal
but couldn’t prevent his majesty from losing a finger.
Furious and without showing gratitude,the King
said;if
God was good,I would not have been attacked and lost
one finger. The servant replied; Despite all these
things,I
can
only tell you that God is good and everything He
does is perfect, He is never wrong. Outraged by the
response,the king ordered the arrest of his servant.
Later, he left for another hunt and was captured by
savages who use human beings for sacrifice.
In the altar, the savages found out that the king
didn’t had one finger in place, he was released because he
was
considered not “complete” to be offered to the gods.
On his return to the palace, he authorized the release
of
his servant and said; My friend, God was really good to
me. I was almost killed but for lack of a single finger I
was
let go.
But I have a question; If God is so good, why did He
allow me to put you in jail?. He replied; My king, if I had
gone
with you, I would have been sacrificed because I
have no
missing finger.
Everything God does is perfect, He is never wrong. Often we complain about life,and the
negative
things that happen to us, forgetting that nothing is
random, and that everything has a purpose.
God knows why he chose you to receive
this message today, If you Believe that God is on your side as u begin this
new
day, then write,”AMEN” if u mean it!!!
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11 Ways To Eliminate Bad Habits

Being able to eliminate bad habits can have a profound effect on your life. But habits can be challenging to change since they aren’t based on thoughtful choice, so it’s difficult to use logic to change your behavior. They require a multi-facet approach.

If you can’t shake your bad habits, try these tips to get you on the road to freedom:

1. Give it a month. In 30 days you can eliminate a bad habit and create a new, positive habit. Do your very best for a month. If you backslide after a month, it’s likely that your strategy is lacking.

2. Replace your bad habit. It’s almost impossible to just drop it and not replace what you’ve lost. So think about what your bad habit gives you and find a replacement that provides the same benefit. Replace the benefit or it will be a constant battle.

3. Deal with one challenge at a time. For example, avoid trying to overhaul your diet, exercise, spending, and smoking habits all at once. Pick one; give it a month. Then add another one once you’re used to not having the first bad habit.

You don’t have to be in a hurry. Consider what it would mean if you could just get rid of your 4 worst habits. That’s only 4 months away. Comparatively, that’s quick, considering that you’ve probably had them for a long time.
4. Be a scientist. Leave the big emotional struggle for someone else and approach the process like a scientist. Have an attitude of wondering if you can replace the habit. Hypothesize on how it might turn out. Be curious and have a perspective of doing an experiment. There’s less drama and bias that way.

5. Remove your triggers. For example, get the junk food out of the house. If you smoke, stay away from the places you always smoke. Avoid the places that tempt you to spend a lot of money. Habits don’t have a lot of thought behind them – they’re almost like reflexes. Don’t put yourself in harm’s way.

6. Avoid being too hard on yourself. It might take a couple of tries to get the new habit to stick. Just improve your approach and keep on going.

7. Remind yourself. It’s easy to forget to perform your new habit. If you’re going to start exercising every day, set up some reminders. If you’re going to floss, leave the floss out where you can see it.

8. Tell your friends. Your friends can help you reach your goal. They’ll say something if they see you eating a hot fudge sundae or smoking on your lunch breaks. Get all the help you can.

9. Be consistent. If you’re going to start exercising regularly, try to do it each day at the same time. This is much easier than trying to exercise 3 times a week. Try to do your replacement habit daily.

10. Remember the pain. Each day, ask yourself what it will mean if you don’t stop indulging in your bad habit. Visualize the likely outcome.

11. Focus on the pleasure. Every day, ask yourself what it will mean if you eliminate or replace your bad habit. Visualize the likely outcome of this scenario.

Bad habits really put the brakes on your progress.

Use the tips above and give yourself a great opportunity to eliminate your bad habits and replace them with useful habits. There’s no better feeling than knowing you have control over your life.

To Our Success,
Randy Mundt
http://unlimitedlifestyles.tk

7 Things You Should Not Do To A Woman.

7 Things You Should Not Do To A Woman.
1. Don’t beat her.
2. Don’t verbally abuse her.
3. Don’t disrespect her.
4. Don’t make her feel unloved. 5. Don’t rape
her.
6. Don’t cheat on her.
7. Don’t ignore her love languages.
Give her kindness, she’ll give you love.
Give her smiles, she’ll give you laughter.
Give her your heart, she’ll give you her life.
Give her a house, she’ll give you a home.
Give her an idea, she will give you a plan.
Treat her like a queen, she’ll make you a
king.
Love her, and she’ll submit herself!
Sin against her and she will make your life
miserable. Agreed???

written by Ibrahim Gana Malgwi

2014

AD 2014: Year of fulfilled desires Psalm 145:18-19

written by Ibrahim Gana Malgwi